Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Ex-Disclaimer
I mentioned more than once that I am divorced and in a previous post I mentioned some of the guys I've dated in the past were some big time losers. My ex-husband is not someone I'd classify as a loser. Our marriage didn't work out for many reasons, but he is a good person. I'm still friends with some of his family members. He keeps in touch with people in my family. Odd as it may seem to some, I would not want to intentionally hurt his feelings. Although I am not in love with him, I will always love him like I love my family and friends. I will always care what happens to him and wish him the best. It's very important to me that he know this. So on the off chance that he reads my blog, there it is. And if not, at least others will know that it is possible to not hate your ex-husband.
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Its nice to know that is possible to not hate your ex husband, you and stuart are the perfect example of how to remain adults and care genuinely about each other regardless of the marital outcome. As i sit here looking at my happy little one year old I try to be optimistic that someday Dw and i might have that too, but I think what you have said Caety makes obvious sense, it takes time. However, regardless of whether or not DW someday chooses to pull his rather large head out of his ass and be a father and friend, Cooper already has a daddy. He is a lucky boy. Thanks for sending me the link to your blog Caety, you always have had a sincere way of putting things where I understand them. And now i can check up on you :) as long as you promise not to proofread my posts for grammar errors, because i already know my infrequent capitalization of my "i's" is killing you ;)
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